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Products to make oral sex nicer

Category:Sex & desire

Licking and sucking your partner is warm, wet and intimate. And many people think that oral sex is one of the nicest things you can do in bed. But there are actually things that can make it even more amazing. Flavored lubes, dildos and P-spot vibrators can take the experience up another notch.

Being licked or sucked is nice as it is, but there are actually products that can add something more to the experience.

For those with a vagina, stimulation of the clitoris is the most common way to achieve orgasm. This makes oral sex a safe bet for those who want to make the one with the clitoris really enjoy it.

But why settle for stimulating one place when you can stimulate several? If you like penetration, a dildo, or why not a G-spot dildo, can make oral sex even more enjoyable.

Having the G-spot stimulated while having oral sex intensifies the sensation. Pelle Ullholm, sex educator at RFSU.

Have better oral sex with the help of a toy

“Having the G-spot stimulated at the same time as having oral sex intensifies the sensation. The clitoris is stimulated from two sides. The tongue stimulates the glans clitoris while the rod reaches the inner parts of the clitoris and the G-spot area. The person stimulating can alternate between licking and sucking on the clitoris glans while stimulating the G-spot area inside the vagina by pressing on it with a wand,” says Pelle Ullholm, sex educator at RFSU

For those with a penis, it can add something extra to stimulate the P-spot while being sucked, for example, with the help of a finger, a butt plug or a special P-spot vibrator.

“Stimulating the P-spot can enhance the orgasm and make it even more intense. The orgasmic feeling is often experienced as stronger, more powerful and more exhausting if you are stimulated anally at the same time as having an orgasm,” says Pelle Ullholm


Add extra flavor to oral sex

If you want to enhance the sensation, a warming lubricant can make it feel even better. There are also flavored lubricants for those who want to stimulate even more senses.

“A flavored lubricant can be fun and playful. It can also be a way to de-dramatize both the sex and to use lubricant for those who want it. Test things out a bit!” says Pelle Ullholm.

For those who do not like to lick directly on the penis, a lick pad can be a good idea. It can also be an option for those who want to lick around the anus but feel that they would like to have something in between.


Toys that feel like oral sex

Today, there are several different products that try to mimic the feeling of a tongue against the clitoris or a sucking mouth. For example, there is  a plastic “tongue” variant that imitates how it feels to be licked. For those who have a penis, there are several different types of sex toys that, with the help of sucking effects, are supposed to imitate a blowjob. This is perfect for those who like the feeling of oral sex during masturbation, or for those who have a partner who is not comfortable giving oral sex and want to have the sex toy with them during sex with a partner.


Last updated: 2023.06.07